Do you find yourself secretly longing for the sleek, clean lines of modern furniture, while surrounded by flea market vintage and Shabby Chic? How do you deal with combining your antiques with your future husband’s love of leather sectionals? Now that the children have moved out, you can finally purchase furniture without having to attest to its stain fighting abilities, but where do you begin, and what are the rules when combining widely disparate looks?

A change in style need not be cause for a crisis, whether it’s brought on by the evolution of our own personal taste, or a change in lifestyle.

Here are a few guidelines that allow for an easy transition when coordinating the look of your home:

Scale of furniture-Consider scale as well as the shape. Be wary of paring an overstuffed chair with a petite end table, but that doesn’t mean you can’t create a sitting area in a corner that combines a smaller scale table and chair in the same room. Breaking up the grouping allows for diversity in scale.

Color- If it’s your eclectic accessories, not furniture that need to be integrated, create groupings by color to help create a harmonious look. On tabletops, use groupings of three to add visual interest.

Unifying element-These can be colors, patterns or textures. Repeating these in pillows, window treatments and fabrics will help to pull a space together, even if the pieces of furniture are very different.

Remember, this is your home after all. Modern, Eclectic, Traditional-the only style it needs to fit is your own.

Leigh Newport is owner of Staged by Design Home Staging and Interior Redesign. www.staged-by-design.com.

Originally published in the Loudoun Independent, October 29, written by Leigh Newport